DEVOTIONS Friends To Die For Though painful at the moment, rebuke is profitable in the long run. Dave Hansen
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Rebuke from a friend is actually a form of love. Though painful at the moment, rebuke is profitable in the long run. When rebuke comes from a friend, you can trust the source. You know the person has your best interests in mind. Accepting rebuke is one thing, giving rebuke another. Both are needed to make friendship thrive.
Folly delights a man who lacks judgment, but a man of understanding keeps a ...
A leader must accept the challenge of criticism rather than let it become a threat. When criticism is a threat, a leader becomes defensive, but when it is viewed as a challenge, he or she can handle it constructively. Let me share some of the positive approaches I have learned in handling criticism.
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Routine criticism is common to ministry. It may not be written into a church leaders' job description, but coping with critics, complainers, and loud mouths is part of serving God's people. Abuse, however, is different from (and far worse than) routine criticism. It is not aimed at improving a leader's or a team's work. Rather, it is aimed at discrediting and disabling a certain ministry.
Criticism in the ministry comes with the job. It always has—beginning with our Lord himself. If we cannot handle criticism, we probably don't belong in ministry. We won't survive. In seminary, many pastors hear what I heard: "Be prepared for constant criticism. Expect at least 10 percent of the people to criticize everything you do." We could squabble about his percentage, but the principle is ...
Self-evaluation in ministry has a built-in dilemma: effective ministry demands a certain absence of self-consciousness, yet evaluating ministry demands self-awareness. The key is remembering that, as leaders, our basic priority is to equip the saints to minister.
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Classify Your Critics Long- and short-term solutions to handling those who are determined to keep you in line. Fred Smith
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Critics come in many shapes and sizes. Some are overt, and some are covert. Some hit you in the nose, and others stab you in the back. I have found classifying my critics helpful; it helps me anticipate what a person may say.
I'm sure you'll have no trouble putting people's names with these types (but be sure to classify according to people's performance, not your personal feelings for them). As you ...
There is little that will destroy the momentum of a church as rapidly as unbridled criticism. Critical eyes often focus on the church leader. How often has someone cornered you and said, "I hate to be critical, but … "
You can change criticism from a stumbling block to a steppingstone. Rather than merely being irritated by it, you can be stimulated by it. Use this checklist for managing how you ...
One of the most dangerous inclinations in confrontation is to do it immediately—when you're agitated. Sometimes we're so angry we can't stop from venting. A better idea is to plan for the difficult conversation and even prepare thoughts (even written thoughts) in advance.
Clarify your intentions. Is your goal to set him straight? Get your way? Make sure she knows you're in charge? For a confrontation to be effective, the purpose must be to find truth. Entering the conversation believing you already see the whole picture is to court disaster. Approaching a confrontation as a way for everyone to grow, instead of an opportunity to "fix" someone, will pave the way for success.
The Price of Progress Four ways to keep change from turning your church upside down Stuart Briscoe
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When a church undertakes a building program, adds another service, or changes the style of worship music, it often loses something in the process. Just as store owners who expand their facilities pay the price in construction costs, dust, and inconvenience (as well as temporary decline in sales), so progressive churches face the possibility of lost members, lost money, and lost momentum.
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