When Jesus addressed the churches in the first three chapters of Revelation, he started out with something positive before addressing the concern. We should follow that example by first stating some positive traits before addressing the concerns. That would allow the criticism to be constructive. It also matters what my motive is. Is it to tear you down or build you up? If it's to build up, then I will approach you with gentleness, love and respect. I also won't enjoy having to address you; I won't be looking forward to it. I won't be condescending or malicious in any way. Our motive when having to instill constructive criticism needs to be to want to see that person become a better Christian, not to want to see me looking like the better Christian.
Grant Hendry (Guest)
Posted: January 31, 2008
Ensure that you personally, are part of the solution, not the problem!
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