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If I Were a Pastor Again
Five things I would do differently.
by Church Central

Topics:Criticism, Outreach, Priorities, Shepherding, Spiritual disciplines, Time
Filters:Outreach, Pastor, Pastoral care
Purpose:Ministry
References:Acts 6:4
Date Added:September 02, 2009

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Posted: September 04, 2009
Bill  (Guest)
I think some may have missed the point - Thom spent his time in the pastoriate as many do...involved in the "business" of the church and not the people. It is not hard to see that what he is saying is basic and should be understood - but when we become pastors there are so many things that have the ability to take our time away from what we should really be focusing on. God, the Word, prayer, and the people that He has placed in our care. Thom's words and advise are not superficial at all - remember his audience...the very people that are likely doing the same thing to some degree and need to refocus. I for one am blessed by his words and will share it with the rest of our staff. Thanks Thom for your words of encouragement!

Posted: September 03, 2009
K. Sherman  (Guest)
Somewhat superficial and not digging deep enough into the why? Why become a pastor if not called to the job by God? And if your were called does not God qualify those that are called to pastoral ministry? The best advice anyone, pastor or not, can offer to a pastor is to examine their calling. It is of God and why am I engage in this work? What are my true innermost motivations? Am I here because of a heratfelt desire to serve or am I here to be served? Those questions will produced more God called and service willing men to ministry in my opinion than all the Seminarys and Bible Colleges in America.

Posted: September 03, 2009
Bill Cole  (Guest)
This is right on! Thanks, Tom for being transparent. We need more pastors to heed this advice.


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Before becoming a seminary dean and LifeWay president, I served four churches as pastor. Can I really be objective in evaluating myself as a pastor? I doubt it. Self-awareness is elusive.

But let me give it my best shot. On a scale of 1 to 10, I guess I would rate myself as a 5, right at average. Okay, maybe I'm being a bit too generous. A 3 or 4 would probably be more accurate. Forget it. I never liked those scales anyway.

The fact of the matter is that I really messed up a lot as a pastor. It's one of the toughest jobs in the world. I would not wish it on anyone unless he knew he was really called by God to this ministry.

Five Changes I Would Make

This list is not comprehensive. My mistakes in ministry constitute a much longer list than a brief article can contain. I would need a long book to write all the dumb things I did. Actually, it would need to be a multi-volume series. But here are five of the biggest changes I would make.

1.I would spend more time in prayer. It's a cliché, but a pastor's work is never done. Sometimes I was just too busy to pray. Now that really sounds dumb. I was too busy to spend time with God, my Creator, and the One who sent His Son to die for me. I so desperately needed His power, but I shamefully neglected time with Him.

2.I would spend more time in the Word. Too many times my sermons were devoid of power because of my busyness in matters of lesser importance. I needed to be more like the Twelve, who refused to let the demands of the church take them away from the prayer and the ministry of the Word (Acts 6:4).

3. I would spend more time loving my critics than worrying about their criticisms. I am too thin-skinned. I often let critics bother me too much. Certainly there are times when criticisms against me are valid; there were many of those times when I served as pastor. But most of the time someone was dealing with an issue and I was the most convenient target. They needed more love; I often gave them greater neglect. I just wanted to avoid them.

4.I would spend more time with the people of the church. I love to watch those pastors who have mastered the art of "hanging out." They love the people they serve. They want to spend time with them. They are truly like shepherds in their concern and love. Being with the members of the church is not a burden to them—it is a joy. I needed to be more like those pastors.

5.I would spend more time with the unchurched. My most effective evangelistic times as a pastor were not the result of a new program, as helpful as that program may have been. I was most evangelistic when I had friends and acquaintances who were unchurched. I needed to get outside the walls of my Christian cocoon and get more into the culture of those who don't know Jesus.

The Point of It All

I am not wallowing in self-pity, nor am I on a guilt trip for my many mistakes. I do regret them, but I can't change the past; I can only live in the present. The point of these words was to show my many deficiencies as a pastor for those who are currently in that role. Perhaps something I wrote might help a pastor today. Perhaps my mistakes will not be his.