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Connecting with Muslims
Finding common ground is essential to reaching Muslims.

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Round Trip Missions spoke with T.V. Thomas, Director of the Centre for Evangelism & World Mission.

You grew up in Malaysia, so you're no stranger to other religions. How should Christians respond to the growing number, specifically of Muslims, in the United States and Canada?

Number one, I think we need to deal with our fear issue. I think a lot of Christians are fearful of all Muslims, and that's because it's formed by images on the screen and rhetoric in the media about what's happening overseas. This fear is counterproductive when relating to Muslims. A lot of Christians don't realize that most Muslims are nominal, and nominal Muslims are more apt to respond to the gospel if they can see Christianity lived out for them.

What are some of the obstacles Christians face in relating to Muslims?

Most Muslims think that Western Christianity is bankrupt. So that's one problem. From their perspective, Western society has become morally degenerate. They have a point. And unfortunately, they see this as a reflection on Christianity in general. After all, the West is a so-called "Christian" society. So my first piece of advice for Christians is not to use the word "Christian." I describe myself as a diligent follower of Christ. "Christian" means a lot of things. But identifying as a diligent follower of Christ suggests the kind of relationship I have and the faith I live by. And that really throws Muslims. It saves me from having to defend somebody else's activity, somebody else's lifestyle.

When talking to a Muslim, is it best to start with similarities between the faiths? Should a Christian focus on the common moral ground? Or is it better to delineate the differences up front?

No, definitely don't start with the differences. There is a lot of common ground. The Bible clearly calls for holiness, righteousness, and prayer. It also stresses the importance of the family. These are all commonalities that we should focus on. Of course, talking about these similarities often leads to discussion of the differences, but I think we need to focus on the similarities first. Muslims often use theological issues as a smoke screen. And I feel that when you relate to Muslims, you should appreciate some of the aspects of Islam—for instance, that they take daily prayer seriously.

Once you've established a rapport by talking about the commonalities between your faiths, how do you broach the differences? How do you talk about Jesus?

They have a great respect for Christ. I talk to them about Islam. That's when they find out that they didn't know Islam as they think they do. They are blown away because they thought they knew the Koran. I let them read in their own language what the Koran affirms about Jesus. Most of them don't know their own scriptures.

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May 28, 2014  4:57pm

"The Muslim woman is the key. They are not accessible because they do not always freely interact with others outside the home, but Christian women can reach out to them in their homes. Most Muslim women are stuck at home. But to go there and learn about their cooking and show them how to bake, or have women over to your house when their husbands are gone and say, 'I'm going to teach some baking, some cooking'." I get why you recommend this because I have extended family that is Turkish and have experienced this just as a part of our family visits. But in my situation, my wife is disabled and unable to work in the kitchen. I am a pastor and so there are some preconceptions that come with that which impact (both good and bad) my ability to connect with Muslims. Might you have any other suggestions as to how I, a 50-year old American male and Christian pastor, can connect with Muslims in my local community?

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