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Making the Most of Meetings
How to turn talk into action.


Topics:Church board, Committees, Leadership, Management, Meetings, Planning, Priorities, Time
Filters:Church board, Church staff, Deacon, Discipleship, Elder, Pastor
Purpose:Discipleship
References:Proverbs 3:5, Proverbs 16:3, Ephesians 5:15
Date Added:July 12, 2007

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How many times have you been in a committee meeting that went well, but in the weeks that followed, little or nothing happened? People either didn't remember or didn't act on what was said. So much talk, so little action.

Having endured that many times, I finally abandoned the traditional minutes of the meeting. Instead, I record a short, simple list of action steps. The only written record of the meeting lists what action will be taken, by whom, and when. Then I email (or mail) this list to each person immediately after the meeting. For example:

Who Action Step When
Jack Check availability and prices for 3 retreat centers by next meeting
Cindy Invite speaker by Feb. 15
Cheryl Check calendar to make sure date is open by next meeting

This approach takes much less time than writing full minutes, and it focuses people's attention on what matters. The important part of the meeting is not so much what was discussed (yes, we'll have a retreat) but acting on what was discussed (doing the work necessary to actually hold a retreat).

Let me summarize, then, the Miller Method for Meetings: Attach action steps to every project and every item for discussion. Don't move on until you know, "Who's responsible for this? Who will do what by when?" In fact, at the end of almost every meeting I lead, I say, "Okay, here are the actions steps we've listed." Then I read each one out loud to make sure it's accurate and someone is committed to do it.

A friend kids me that when I'm in a meeting at work, before long, "The jaws snap shut." Go ahead: call me Jaws. But the only way I can handle so many words at meetings—the only way I can convert discussion into results—is to make sure a decision is made and action is taken. I've tasted results-oriented meetings, and I'll never go back to the other kind.

This raises a question: Why do so many meetings not reach this goal of clear, simple action steps? Usually because one of the following questions hasn't been answered:

Do we really need this meeting? Peter Drucker cautions, "Meetings are by definition a concession to deficient organization, for one either meets or one works." And Richard Saul Wurman promises, "The quality of meetings in your life would improve if there were fewer of them, with fewer people."

Who's in charge? In a church, meetings bring together people from various backgrounds and ministries, many of whom are peers, so it's not always clear who's leading. We actually ask out loud, "Whose meeting is this, anyway?"

What led up to this meeting? Most of the time, this group hasn't met for two weeks, one month, or even two months. People can't remember what was discussed last time; it's not fresh in their minds. So I've learned to quickly summarize what led up to this meeting and where the project stands. I used to think People will get bored by hearing all this again, but I was wrong. People need and want the quick refresher course of what happened so far and where we stand now.